creating a social persona

[boxofdelights]

In a friends-locked post, someone asked for advice on creating a social persona to mediate between her self and the world. I wrote

I built one through a lot of reading. The most immediately-useful construction materials came from Miss Manners. Miss Manners has a lot of privileges that she is not aware of, but people who are willing to explain things before I get them wrong as opposed to just punishing me afterwards (and expecting me to figure it out from there) are really hard to find.

Do you have any suggestions?

Comments

[jesse_the_k]

I find Capt Awkward helpful — after decades of therapy the Awkward Army has helped me understand and deploy "boundaries."

CaptainAwkward.com

[badgerbag]

+1 for Captain Awkward!! More like Captain Consciousness Raising!