I raise you one
Feb. 12th, 2025 08:02 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
My neighbors and I have fallen into the habit of shoveling each other's sidewalk when we are doing our own, because if you are out there why not. They do it more often, because they get up in the morning and I do not. So whenever I am baking a big batch of cookies I bake some for them, to keep up my end.
First snow this year, they shoveled, and I said thank you when we crossed paths. Neighbor said actually, their youngest child did it; they're making him work! I left cookies at their door a few days later.
Neighbor texted: "Thank you so much for the ginger snap cookies!! These are our favorite!!"
Me: "I hope [child's name] likes them too!"
Neighbor: "For sure!"
This morning, even though it was very cold, the public sidewalk was shoveled from one alley to the other, and so was the walk to my front door, which was not something we have done for each other before. The shoveling was thoroughly done, the whole width of the sidewalk, so I'm going to guess it was not the child's job this time.
I'm thinking, ginger cookies and brownies? Ginger cookies and Mexican wedding cakes? Ginger cookies and spiced nuts?
On the other hand, where will this end?
First snow this year, they shoveled, and I said thank you when we crossed paths. Neighbor said actually, their youngest child did it; they're making him work! I left cookies at their door a few days later.
Neighbor texted: "Thank you so much for the ginger snap cookies!! These are our favorite!!"
Me: "I hope [child's name] likes them too!"
Neighbor: "For sure!"
This morning, even though it was very cold, the public sidewalk was shoveled from one alley to the other, and so was the walk to my front door, which was not something we have done for each other before. The shoveling was thoroughly done, the whole width of the sidewalk, so I'm going to guess it was not the child's job this time.
I'm thinking, ginger cookies and brownies? Ginger cookies and Mexican wedding cakes? Ginger cookies and spiced nuts?
On the other hand, where will this end?
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Date: 2025-02-13 04:01 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2025-02-13 06:42 am (UTC)When I was much younger and fitter, I used to shovel my older neighbor's walk. She never thanked me for it, not once. I have often wondered what it was that dried up the milk of human kindness in her. She died many years ago, and we've had four sets of neighbors in that house since, all of whom were more pleasant than she was.
On the more cheerful hand, a current neighbor and Glenn frequently shovel each other's walks, and always thank each other.
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Date: 2025-02-13 01:31 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2025-02-13 01:45 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2025-02-13 01:49 pm (UTC)Myself, I just wouldn't escalate--but I think all your suggestions are great, if you do decide to up the ante ;-)
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Date: 2025-02-13 04:28 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2025-02-13 06:00 pm (UTC)Mutual aid is
Date: 2025-02-13 07:09 pm (UTC)great in the moment, and continues to feed a warm glow for a long time.
Are the "spiced nuts" you refer to hard cookies, or actual spiced nuts? If the latter, tell me more or point me to a recipe!
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Date: 2025-02-13 08:34 pm (UTC)