boxofdelights

Oh, dear. And "So, if she shouldn't be driving, you're volunteering to disrupt your own life to drive her everywhere she wants to go whenever is convenient for her for the rest of her life?" isn't likely to shut them up, even though they are probably assuming either that you should do that, or that she doesn't have the right to go where she wants.

I don't mean to minimize the risks here: but I am not a doctor, let alone her doctor, and I don't know what they are. I do know that "no driving for n months, and then it's okay if she hasn't had a seizure in that time" is fairly standard—and if she actually accepts her doctor's stricture on that, she's more civic-minded than a lot of people.