We will always like you here
Mar. 28th, 2023 01:40 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
I'm falling in love with Michelle Obama's mother, Marian Robinson.
--Michelle Obama, The Light We Carry
Once, when I was in high school, and unhappy about having to deal with a math teacher who struck me as arrogant, my mom heard my complaint, nodded understandingly, and then shrugged. "You don't have to like your teacher, and she doesn't have to like you," she said. "But she's got math in her head that you need in yours, so maybe you should just go to school and get the math." She looked at me then and smiled, as if this should be the simplest thing in the world to grasp. "You can come home to be liked," she said. "We will always like you here."
--Michelle Obama, The Light We Carry