Unexpected blow to the self-esteem day

The man who led SF book group last night sent out an email recap to everyone today. He attributed what I said about the book to me, but what I said about The Cloud Road being reprinted to the other fat woman there. The other fat woman and the man have been attending this book group much longer than I have, but I've been there almost every month for two years, sheesh already.

It's funny; the last time I was confused with another person who looks nothing like me except for fat and glasses, I thought of it as an individual problem: doesn't she like me? Is she maybe a little bit face blind? But this time I'm just, pfft, men, how can they be expected to tell one woman they're not attracted to from another.

xkcd: How Sexism Works