feel the fear and do it anyway

[boxofdelights]

We are having some exciting weather. My husband's girlfriend R and I are taking turns going up to his place to feed the horses and water the garden while Neal and Mungo are in Yellowstone. Today was her turn, but I was worried about the possibility of flash floods, or lightning, or the horses getting spooked and doing something dangerous, so I--

--if you've been reading here for a while, you might remember that my husband maximized the uncomfortable of our getting acquainted, mostly by treating every potential meeting as terribly fraught. R and I would both rather be friendly acquaintances, but we're both painfully shy and much better at avoiding uncomfortable interactions than making them less uncomfortable. We're working on it. I've had her phone number for a while but never used it. Making phone calls is hard. But today, I really was worried about the weather, so--

I called! And offered to go with her. And it went fine! It wasn't necessary: the horses were up by the barn, not down on the flood plain. But I'm glad I did.

Comments

[kaberett]

Oh, well done you :-)

[seascribble]

Triumph! Well done. :)

[amaebi]

Oh, that's hard, and you were so generous to do it.

[were_duck]

Yay! I sometimes struggle with introducing partners to each other--anxiety can often make for more awkward than is necessary. I'm glad you felt comfortable reaching out to her and that it was a good experience for you!