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we are still married
Jan. 1st, 2012 10:21 pmA few days ago, Neal asked me, "Is it twenty-five?" I looked around, puzzled. Is what twenty-five? "What year is it, 2011? And it was '86?" Oh! Right! Wedding anniversary! And it was '86. "Happy anniversary," he said, "for what it's worth."
We are still friends and good co-parents, which is what I wanted. And I couldn't have done it without him.
Also just past is my ninth LJ-versary. I plan to keep crossposting, and to keep reading those of you who post there, but, mentally, I've moved out. Dreamwidth is home now.
However I do not have a native understanding of the split between subscription and access filters. I think it is an excellent idea! It just doesn't do anything for the way I use DW. There was a while there when I was subscribing without giving access as a way of saying, "I would like to read your posts without presuming that you want to read my posts." That would work if I were meticulous about noticing and granting access to anyone who subscribed back, but I am not meticulous. So I think from now on I'll unite subscribing and giving access, and hope it does not seem presumptuous.
We are still friends and good co-parents, which is what I wanted. And I couldn't have done it without him.
Also just past is my ninth LJ-versary. I plan to keep crossposting, and to keep reading those of you who post there, but, mentally, I've moved out. Dreamwidth is home now.
However I do not have a native understanding of the split between subscription and access filters. I think it is an excellent idea! It just doesn't do anything for the way I use DW. There was a while there when I was subscribing without giving access as a way of saying, "I would like to read your posts without presuming that you want to read my posts." That would work if I were meticulous about noticing and granting access to anyone who subscribed back, but I am not meticulous. So I think from now on I'll unite subscribing and giving access, and hope it does not seem presumptuous.